Yep, when it rains, it pours. :-( Hopefully your L friend can settle the suit quickly. Is there any way to let the other party know what's happening? It may get you some sympathy and get it over quickly.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016