Thanks CWOL, I know you did some exposing as well and while it doesn't always work out the way we want, at least we don't have to wonder what if. My W did say something interesting which resonated with me and my level of DBing or lack thereof. She said that she moved on and then said "I don't know if you have or if you are still stuck there (in the past)" aka you haven't detached and you are still the same person I seperated from. I gotta step my game up.