Feeling lost

[srt]

I should say that things are always civil between us until it gets onto a "difficult" issue for her, like time with kids, holidays, relationship, etc.

I've not been pushing these things as she just puts up a wall. I'm unsure if it's cheeseless tunnels or just a front to prevent/protect her in the bubble.

However I know she is not dealing with stuff that must be resolved - the current situation is just dragging and that is my biggest annoyance.