Had another R conversation with W this morning. I hate these because nothing really gets resolved, she just spews her anger and I validate and then we agree to disgree...everytime. This time was a little bit different, she said that she has moved on, she has many friends that she spends time with, she has her private life and when she thinks about going back to the M we had before she shuts down because she hated it. I agreed, I hated it too and I told her if she wants to live separately so be it, fine with me. She said we couldn't afford it (it's true for the most part). She then said that what happened between us is just sad. She said she isn't angry anymore, just hurt because she never thought we would have gotten to this place...but there was too much emptiness between us and even hanging out as a family is uncomfortable (she got all teary-eyed) I validated and said that I understand and feel the same way. Man that $ucked and we will probably have round 2. I pursued a bit too much I think (body language was me with arms crossed, kinda followed her around as she was walking and talking) and nothing really got resolved
