So, I've committed to making changes to myself. I need to do these changes for me, not just to win my W back. With the separation I hope my W actually gets to experience the changes. My fear is that she won't see much since we will have little contact.
I also wonder what will prompt her to change. She isn't without fault, but she puts 100% of the blame squarely on me. What kinds of things might allow her to see the bigger picture instead of being so focused on "husband = unhappiness."
