I wish I could have truly wrapped my mind around the following a long time ago.
Not my monkeys not my circus, and I can only fix me. I have realized that I was so attached for so long in my marriage trying to help and fix W that I was truly unhappy.
I'm letting that go. W has to deal with her own monkeys and circus, whether she chooses to or not, is not my problem. I have to protect myself and my kids!
This is how I am starting to feel of late. The angry WAW has a full 3 ring circus, monkeys of every species and a clown army to boot. I have to just watch it, chuckle and try like he// to get myself together and re create a future for me and my baby girls.
Keep on the good path Ralph and you will be a better man and father regardless of her circus.
SadHub, I literally just LOL reading this! I love your attitude!
-Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela