"What if she thinks I'm being a jerk, What if she thinks I don't care, Etc......." ,
That s a trap you set for yourself. What doesn't work, is for you to worry that she will think you don't care, b/c that type of thinking prevents you from acting like the strong, independent man that you need to be right now.......and she needs to see.
What does works with a WW, is for her to be concerned that you don't care. I have found that most H's think completely opposite of the WW mindset.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
