Originally Posted By: JujuB


Even knowing my relationship would be better I could not forgive. My own issues/beliefs/values I guess. + more. But everyone is different. Perhaps my views on sex are old fashioned and not very evolved and I am not strong enough to forgive.


JujuB

What could you not forgive? My WW cannot forgive me for filing for D (even after I apologized and regret taking that action) and went right out and started dating online and has now found an OM. Maybe she is more mature mentally than I am and can move on from the MR. Now she has filed for D since I will not move to her city to co-parent even though I stated that I will not be part of an open marriage, she chose to ignore and now we are down the path again to D.


H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6
S-9,8,8,6,4
S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15
EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16
PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16
XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16
Finally moving forward...