Just a little update, but nothing has really change other than my STBXW is in a pretty serious R with OM2. Our D will be final sometime in August, but i continue to be the best i can be, and detach. It gets better with each passing day, but i still think of her everyday too.

I often think to myself what if my STBXW were to do a full 180, and want to work on the marriage? Tell me all the right things like being remorseful, totally committed to working on marriage ect..what would i do? I think i would want to, but how the heck do you trust someone like this again?

I don't think i really have to worry about my question anyways because if you have a WW that was in an A then moved on to OM2, and is now in a R with this OM2 then the love that WW once had for H is totally gone?