Quote: Hey Jen, Imagine if your H had never let you eat. You were literally starving to death and would beg and cry for food and sometimes get ugly and act like an ass to shame him into feeding you. Nothing worked. Then one day he decided to feed you and announced that you could now, anytime you wanted it, eat from his table. Would you be so thrilled that you jumped all over him and said, THANK YOU H! You are so wonderful for finally feeding me! This is delicious!
VERY good analogy. You're helping both Jen and I to see the other side. I guess I would use chocolate in my analogy for my W.
This kinda makes me see why my W once said it would almost be easier if I never changed. She would have been hurt by the past, but the fear of getting hurt again would be 1000 times worse.
And because we still spend time together and talk about the things we miss about each other or play together with our pet, the pain is still there.
I guess I would say...you have every right to be angry, hurt, and upset. I will not deny your right to feel the way you feel. But everyday we're one day closer to out dying day. Don't let another one slip away or do something that you'll regret in the future.
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." – Lao Tzu
