Hey Jen, One more thing that I wanted to comment on and then I'll leave ya alone, lol.
The "I thought he'd be so glad that it would be the end of the problem" thing....well, it's not really that simple in the mind of the HD person. It is NOT just the sex we have been craving but the whole package. And being deprived of it and having your esteem go down the drain, well, all of that can't be repaired by a few weeks of frequent sex, kwim?
Imagine if your H had never let you eat. You were literally starving to death and would beg and cry for food and sometimes get ugly and act like an ass to shame him into feeding you. Nothing worked. Then one day he decided to feed you and announced that you could now, anytime you wanted it, eat from his table. Would you be so thrilled that you jumped all over him and said, THANK YOU H! You are so wonderful for finally feeding me! This is delicious!
Or would you want to say, F you, husband, you shoulda been feeding me all along and you can take your food and......
Well you get the picture. I think he might be working through and processing some really negative feelings right now. Feelings that I'm sure he is SO surprised that he even feels. I'll bet you dollars to doughnuts that he thought he'd be just as thrilled with the changes you have made, too.
What I am trying to say is that you are an awesome wife. You are literally every HD person's dream for doing this. But try not to rush this, both for yourself and for him. So that the changes are real and lasting. Allow both of you the time to adjust to your new relationship and settle into a new routine.
You are doing fantastic, you really are. He is just standing back and checking you out and trying to figure out what the aliens did with his REAL wife, lolol.
Enjoy your new sex drive, you sound like a different person!
