Further update, she called me last night, I missed the call and chose to text her back. She seemed irritated by this, but whatever. My brother was over with his gf so I didn't really have time to talk anyway.

I called her back this morning and we chatted about the kids, and S14, now S15. I told her what he told me, basically he was frustrated with the whole situation. She was understanding and thankful for the conversation. I exited it very quickly once we were done talking about the kids.

Me: 38 y/o
W: 38 y/o
Together: 10 yrs
Married: 7 yrs
S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15)
WBD: Sep '15
W's EA confirmed Oct'15
W Filed Dec '15
Personal awakening Mar'16