The whole telling the kids scares me! I feel once this is done she won't turn back. This seems to be her drive right now, to get it over with. I would think filing would come first but for her, she's pushed to tell the kids since the start of this.
Yesterday after work I had a job interview followed by a counseling appnt. She texted me suggesting I remember to talk over with my counselor anything I need to about telling the kids.
When I came home I acted happy and short. She asked how it went with the interview and I quickly replied nicely "fine, thanks". She had planned to go out that night and asked if that was still ok. Again a quick reply back to her and said have a great time. She then started grilling me saying something is wrong, I should tell her. I kept saying that nothing was wrong while smiling, then went up to shower. She came up after I finished before she left and said maybe tomorrow you can tell me whats wrong. I'm not sure if It was my happy nature or short answers that threw her off.
M:13 years Known her for 30 years! Me: 40 W: 38 Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7 BD: 02/07/2016 Found EA: 3/22/2016 Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16 Got Papers: 6/15/16