Rose, I really feel for you. I wish I could help you out. This is so unfair to you and I don't envision this going in a positive direction. Can we all just rename him Fool888?
If there is something I would like to do for you, it would be to help you access your most beautiful, confident, accomplished self. Wherever that might be, can you seek her out and remember how she felt, thought, and behaved? Was there a time in your life that you can remember that? Maybe when you got into college? when you got that first job? The birth of a baby? Helped out your bestfriend? All of that and more?
Because I think your BEST self would take one look at Fool888, shake her head, and really think twice about him. Am I saying you should walk away or give up on your M? Absolutely not! But I am suggesting that if you make a big shift in your thinking and behaving, you have much more power than you realize!
You have the power to feel better and get stronger, despite what he says or does. And let's face it, people are also attratced to confident people. So what can we do to help you find her? Let's stop focusing on H for a bit, he's a Fool888, and quite frankly will do what he is going to do anyway. His circus, his monkeys ...I keep reading that on every thread here :-)))
-Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
