Ok, open question. I have read several posts about exposing affairs and how that can shake the foundations. My issue is that my WW's potential OM is single so other than confronting him directly there is no one to expose him to. I did send a picture of his car that I had to SIL and said that it had been outside her place early in the morning. I haven't contacted the family since, had an email from FIL last week which I answered by sending some pictures of the kids. I didn't ask any questions or mention W at all. He did say that they were not hearing from her much at all.
If I remember correctly Sandi, it was your daughter's discovery that shook your foundations, no?
I will keep pulling away and detaching, have felt better this week about it and has been very little contact with WW. IC has been helping me this week.
My W is a very smart girl, it's hard to see how someone couldn't see the damage they were doing last year, I don't think she ever grasped the concept that she was involved in an EA.
