good morning, H told his parents last night he doesn't want to be married and wanted to move out by the end of the month. He did not tell them about ow.
H also informed me that he is looking at an apt tonight. I told him the money is not there to do it and we need to look at finances instead of him "believing me". I told him this had to be done tonight because I can't lose anymore sleep over this...it is affecting my who personality, job, etc...
I feel so disrespected. I am going to go over finances and try to keep it at a business deal. I am going to tell him to move downstairs and we will reevaluate in 30 days. I am not going to bring up ow. His actions are speaking louder than his words. He tells me there is nothing going on but I don't believe it.
Yes, I fear the unknown but this limbo is making me sick. How do I handle later??? I hate knowing he is looking at an apt but I can't control it. He said he is just looking. I have a feeling it will be a dump and it is in a not great area...I certainly don't want my kids playing outside!! Time will tell...
