I try to stay detached. I've learned not to react, i think thats the key. The only problem now is that I fully comprehend what is happening, and I find myself consciously pushing my WW into the fog, and then pulling her back in by validating.
For example, I would say something about "our" future R, and she's say - "this is why I don't think that we'd work". Then I pull back and let her speak and she comes right out of it and says she's willing to give her marriage a try.
I know that consistency wins the race; getting there is going to be hard but i know that i can do it.
She is definitely not being wayward regarding OM, however, I see so much selfishness, stubbornness and rebellion in the other things that she does. I think that OM is really just a fantasy which is ultimately the best way to rebel. Like when you were a teenager, and your parents said "don't drink"!
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
