My mother always said "guilt is a wasted emotion". Especially when it comes to endless self flagellation. Husband was mad at me today during kid exchange. I have no idea why, but for some reason I still feel guilty.
I thought I was more detached. Trying to just put it out of my mind and stop wondering why. His anger is his problem. Not mine.
Haha. Realize that's what he was thinking about me.
I was never comfortable with limbo. just could not get myself adjusted to it. Him saying it's time to go to mediator, ended limbo for me.