Originally Posted By: Ralph88
I wish I could have truly wrapped my mind around the following a long time ago.

Not my monkeys not my circus, and I can only fix me. I have realized that I was so attached for so long in my marriage trying to help and fix W that I was truly unhappy.

I'm letting that go. W has to deal with her own monkeys and circus, whether she chooses to or not, is not my problem. I have to protect myself and my kids!


This is how I am starting to feel of late. The angry WAW has a full 3 ring circus, monkeys of every species and a clown army to boot. I have to just watch it, chuckle and try like he// to get myself together and re create a future for me and my baby girls.

Keep on the good path Ralph and you will be a better man and father regardless of her circus.


Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine