Any facts about how men handle increasing frequency?

Can I look at this as I'm getting more out of it as we increase the frequency, and he's getting less, or becomming less impressed with the frequency? I already notice it takes him longer... a lot longer to orgasm...

That's great for me... but does that mean he's not getting the same arousal if we ML every couple of days???

I've never seen my H have trouble with the 'closing arguement', but I was a bit worried he was going to! I don't think I've ever had an orgasm before him before!

I did ask him on the weekend how often he would like to ML, and I think he was scared/embarassed to say!!! He said "Twice a week would be great..." What?!?! Here's the guy who's last words before we fall asleep are "Wake me if you can't sleep"! Does anyone believe he is only looking for 2x per week? Is he just being cautious, not wanting to scare me? Or, has his desire gone down? He is a very healthy 40yr old! I really expected more! I have started thinking about ML a lot more... could he be getting to the saturation point?!?! I'm not complaining, but I'm surprised!

I will be continuing to initiate ML as often as possible, and at least 2x/week, so that he will start to feel 'safe' again. I just wish he would try once... I am ready, willing and able, and would love to prove it to him!

Who would have thought our positions would have changed???

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