Be patient. Give it time. Keep doing what you're doing! Don't stop!
I agree with all that's been posted above. Don't worry, nothing's "wrong". He's just getting used to the new climate, that's all. I absolutely agree he's wondering WTF, and wondering if it's a temporary change or if it'll last. I guarantee he doesn't DARE hope too much. He's afraid if he does ANYTHING different he'll jinx it. OTOH, he may also REALLY want to slow down, but AGAIN, he's afraid to jinx it. I think DIALOG is what's needed - you both need to be honest with each other. I'm sure your R can stand it - especially right now, with all the good vibes from all the sex... (WOW, I'm jealous!)
Chill, be cool, enjoy each other... don't worry too much!
