I must commend you for your postings. Your recent additions to this board are just stellar. PLEASE KEEP POSTING! Just wanted to stop by to tell you BRAVO!
I'm on my way to D, and with my WW suspected to be in MLC, it might be years until she wakes up out of the fog. I'm GAL'ing and moving on. Never say never, but the hope I had for a quick 180 on her part never materialized. Your insights into your H are great for me and those who have gotten to D, and hope for a better future. Some do come back - you are blessed to have him. Some do not see the same result, but become the person they always wanted to be through the crucible of D.
Thanks again.
Thank you for that validation, trumpet! I am glad that my posts are helpful, or at least interesting. I am still learning a lot in this process too! It's a life long journey. Honesetly, it has been helpful to come back and read the sitches now too. Perhaps it is helping me remember what a dark place H was in and how much he has come out of the fog. He has really changed and done a lot of self growth in this last year. I do believe he is remorseful, regrets all of it, and wants his M and family together as much as I do.
Keep up with the hard questions and I will try my best to answer them! I can even ask H too. He remains transparent to this day. There is little I don't know other than what I don't want to.
-Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
