Last night I put my best foot forward and was in a super good mood when she came home. Had some light conversation and then did my own thing. Felt good to me that I wasn't waiting for her approval.
Today, again, had a great attitude. Some light conversation and even some discussion about the upcoming move. My mood seemed to pull her mood up. (Side effect - we like being around people who improve our mood.)
Working hard on improving my communication skills and have committed to pushing out of my comfort zone at least once a day. Also still working on GAL.