Well, that was quite the conversation. S14 is no longer a virgin apparently. Does drama ever stop?
She did start top talk about her schedule and stuff for the evening, at which point I just said that I had to run.
Good job. Go about your day and pay her no mind ...
To the subject of teens losing their virginity? Well, I have been there brother, and I can tell you, that is a stressful journey in and of itself! Yikes. I hope he has some support and someone to talk to. I think you and W HAVE to get on the same page for this tho--you don't want him to get lost in the shuffle and start making poor choices. I know it's hard, but this is much more important than DB right now.
When I was separated from H, my teen took a scary downward spiral, and it was heartbreaking! It was especially challenging to not be able to help/support her together. I think our family still has some trauma from that time and what happened to her. Remember, the kids--and even teens and adult kids--are the only real victims in these sitches.
Best of luck with this.
-Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
