I expect it goes without saying that if you're ever taking [D3] out of the city you will let me know. I don't appreciate how many new people are regulars in my child's life and I don't even know them. So I hope you can at least keep me aware of her whereabouts should she be out of reach. I can't believe who you are and how little I know you.
I assume this is in response to the Potluck Party I took my D3 to and the meetup group for single parents and kids between 2-8 years that I organize.
Here's my potential Responses. Should I use A or B or something else? Any feedback is welcome.
A)
Originally Posted By: WHAT I'D LIKE TO WRITE
Dear WW, what I do with OUR daughter when she's in my custody is my choice. I hope you can trust me that I have OUR daughter's best interest at heart and will never put her in harms way. My intention for introducing her to new friends and new kids is to enrich her life and increase her level of comfort with interrelating with others her age beside her cousins.
When you chose to leave me, you also chose to leave 1/2 of your D3's life. Now that you don't have control over my life and the time D3 is in it I suggest you stop complaining about it.
Since you decided to remove me from your life, I have decided to get a life of my own, one that fulfills me. I guess I can thank-you for making that happen.
I know we're still working on the full Parenting Plan, so I understand that I cannot remove D3 from the country without your consent so I never would. While I do not require your permission to take D3 out of the city, if you like, I will notify you by e-mail if I do.
Have a pleasant day.
B)
Originally Posted By: WHAT I SHOULD WRITE
Dear WW, I'm sorry that you feel the way you do about how little you know me. I can understand your frustration about not fully knowing what's going on in Ava's life when she's not with you. I sometimes feel the same way but realize this is the way things will be given we are now separated.
However, I hope you can trust me that I have our daughter's best interest at heart and will never put her in harms way. My intention for introducing her to new friends and new kids is to enrich her life and increase her level of comfort with interrelating with others her age beside her cousins.
I currently have no plans for leaving the city with Ava, but it's possible I may want to take her for a day trip to the zoo or lion safari this summer. For these events I will notify you by e-mail because I realize it will make you feel comfortable.
I hope you are well.
Sorry, response A was for my own therapy. LOL.
Me37 W33 T:8 M:5 D3 BD 11/2015 EA+PA w boss 12/2015 S 3/2016
Im stronger because I had to be Im smarter because of my mistakes happier because of the sadness Ive known and now wiser because I learned
