Jim,
Fight the good fight if you feel it's not right. Your case seems very strong, make sure you have an L that won't just roll over for the sake of "amicable divorce." You have a lot more cards than I do, because of your state's laws.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016