Headed for D - Trying to move on

[J5K]

Painter,

It is an evaluation by a psychologist. L's are having meeting on Thursday with the psychologist. Friend of the court suggested this and we both agreed.

When I first filed for D, the friend of the court could not believe that W stayed away from boys for 2 months, even though court motion stated she was allowed in the home. W kept blaming me for not leaving the home so she could spend time with them and accepted an temporary parenting plan of 60 overnights with the boys because I had everything on lockdown.

At the end of January W said she wanted to reconcile and so she made a feable attempt at coming back to the home. She stated nothing changed and blamed everything on me, I did not dismiss D fast enough, I did not change my ways at home. She would not give specifics as to what needed to change. The only time she has given me specifics was early in January when she asked me to stop smoking, get my transfer and not get angry. I did all those 180s and all I asked was for her to quit dating. When she gave no answer I had no choice but to stop my transfer and 4 days later she filed for D.

Last night I had my boys and S4 and S2 wanted me to sing lullabyes and read books so I did. S4 says he wants to live with me. I hugged him and told him he will be living with both sometimes and that everything will be ok.

Meanwhile she puts boys to be on her time and goes out with OM when she has boys in Toronto.

Just does not seem right in my heart.