She's already trying to encroach on the silence. "I have mail for you and shoes for our son. When do you want me to drop them off?"
Right now! But I can't.
We should be celebrating so much right now as a couple, but she left just before all the best new changes in our lives actually happened.. and she seems to think it has something to do with her leaving and just "letting go", when the reality is these things were going to happen anyway.