Jim, I may have missed this, but is it a regular parental evaluation you have coming up, or a psych evaluation due to specific issues? Is it court-ordered or something you asked for?
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17