I'm guessing you were LD and now HD. Same situation as me. This is probably what your spouse is thinking:
- Who is this person? - How do I know this isn't a temp change? - Why couldn't you do this earlier/before?
My advice, and what I'm trying to do, is to keep on keepin' on. Whatever you do...don't stop initiating because it will look like this was a one time thing, and NOT what you really want.
Hey...unlike my sitch...at least you're not getting turned down now that you're HD. As unromantic as this sounds I also highly recommend the following:
Tell him exactly what you want. If you want to ML X times per week, then tell him you want to ML X times per week. If you want him to do X to you, then tell him you want him to do X to you. If you want to do X to them, then tell him you want to do X to him.
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." – Lao Tzu
