The best advice I can give it what everyone says, dive back into yourself. Start working out hard, play hard, detach, and GAL.
The biggest key is, when she is starting to be nice, you almost need to take another step back, and know that it might not seem like the things to do, but it really is.
Me: 38 y/o W: 38 y/o Together: 10 yrs Married: 7 yrs S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15) WBD: Sep '15 W's EA confirmed Oct'15 W Filed Dec '15 Personal awakening Mar'16