It's regards to mediation he was supposed to book an appointment with mine. That's what he'd said the previous Friday so yeah I was caught off the hop.
With regards to parents evening he has never gone to one, it has always been me. I work at that school also and have witnessed when separated parents make separate appointments and how it affects the kids. As far as I'm concerned yes he was a twit completely thinking of his own feelings again rather than how the situation would embarrass out son at school with his teachers. His response to doing that was I didn't know you'd go!! Ridiculous when I've always gone.
Yes I should control my anger and yes that is me...however with all his lies and stupid things he has done over the last months and then expecting me to just go with it when he has hurt our kids so much is difficult. Any interactions are usually instigated by him but it is his self entitlement when he does wrong that doe send up causing me to react. I know I have to find away to deal with him...but yes I'm struggling when he acts like he hasn't done anything wrong and all he goes on about how he should see the kids and when ( he ready does plenty) then threatening me with court orders .
