Yeah, when everything 'went down' I had so much anger clouding my judgement that I just plowed ahead. Once I was able to clear my mind I realized that I didn't want the D.

It does help, that is exactly what I told her.

Me: 38 y/o
W: 38 y/o
Together: 10 yrs
Married: 7 yrs
S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15)
WBD: Sep '15
W's EA confirmed Oct'15
W Filed Dec '15
Personal awakening Mar'16