Yeah I think what you are doing is good. I would always just text about the kids and keep it at that. And that if the topic was important or about info I have not given in the past. for example "do we have tournament this weekend." reply, "see my email of April 3rd."

However, I must admit my sitch is very different now. I have absolutely no intention of ever taking her back. So I am not DBing for her anymore (I am doing it everywhere else to make myself a better person and have better relationships in the future).

I hope this helps out. Best of luck to you buddy.

Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16