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Re: Focus on the work, not the when Melo #2672194 04/27/16 08:06 AM
Joined: Feb 2016 Posts: 276 M Melo OP Member
OP Melo Member M Joined: Feb 2016 Posts: 276	So today I have been thinking about exposing the EA to OMW. I have some trepidation around doing so because the truth of the matter is that when this explodes,if it does(I think they are seperated as well and OMW may be having an A) then my W still has MANY other choices in men to be with. I am not yet at the point where I am more attractive than these other guys and would therefore be setting myself up for a potential OM2. On the other hand if I wait, then OM might leave his W and take away any leverage I have.� Although I am contemplating this, I am working on me, but I also want to shake her out of her fantasy world. M:37 W:38 D:11,S:7,S:4 T:8, M:5 S:6/1/15 different beds Physical Seperation 7/5/16 Startof NC 7/22/16

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Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/07/16 08:36 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/07/16 09:50 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	sandi2	04/07/16 04:30 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/07/16 04:44 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/07/16 09:05 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/08/16 01:10 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/08/16 01:13 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/08/16 03:15 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	04/08/16 03:18 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/09/16 06:27 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	sandi2	04/10/16 03:31 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/11/16 08:51 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/11/16 07:58 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/11/16 08:48 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	04/11/16 08:57 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/11/16 10:00 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/13/16 07:42 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/17/16 10:41 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/20/16 01:39 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/21/16 02:15 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/21/16 02:31 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	sandi2	04/23/16 01:16 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/26/16 11:17 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	sandi2	04/26/16 11:20 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/26/16 12:07 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	sandi2	04/26/16 12:39 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/26/16 01:02 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	J5K	04/26/16 01:07 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/26/16 02:20 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/27/16 08:06 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/27/16 08:05 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/28/16 09:52 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/28/16 09:59 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/28/16 10:01 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	CWOL	04/28/16 10:44 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/28/16 11:27 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	CWOL	04/28/16 11:36 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/29/16 02:51 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	vise82	04/29/16 04:47 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	04/29/16 06:02 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/29/16 10:53 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/01/16 01:55 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/01/16 06:52 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/02/16 08:50 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/06/16 08:12 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	05/07/16 06:35 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/11/16 05:43 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	vise82	05/11/16 06:29 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	05/11/16 07:31 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/11/16 07:47 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/13/16 04:28 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 03:47 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/16/16 07:14 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 09:52 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	AndrewP	05/16/16 10:07 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/16/16 11:23 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 11:26 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 11:29 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/16/16 01:40 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 03:52 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Ralph88	05/16/16 04:17 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 06:37 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Ralph88	05/16/16 07:23 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	vise82	05/17/16 06:46 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/17/16 10:33 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/17/16 08:10 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/17/16 08:21 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/18/16 06:35 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	05/18/16 07:52 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/19/16 07:12 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	collin	05/19/16 07:29 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/21/16 12:55 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/21/16 01:16 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/21/16 03:35 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/21/16 03:37 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	J5K	05/21/16 06:23 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/22/16 07:34 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/22/16 07:36 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	coffee_	05/22/16 08:09 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/23/16 07:14 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/24/16 11:26 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/25/16 09:17 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/25/16 11:19 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	06/01/16 08:48 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	06/02/16 03:17 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	06/16/16 01:31 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	06/17/16 02:59 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	06/27/16 08:02 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	06/27/16 08:38 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	06/28/16 07:14 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	MoveFrwd	06/28/16 08:21 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	06/28/16 09:00 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/02/16 09:03 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/02/16 09:11 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	07/02/16 09:15 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/02/16 09:40 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	07/02/16 09:59 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/02/16 10:55 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	07/03/16 11:03 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	07/06/16 09:09 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/08/16 01:18 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	job	07/08/16 01:22 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	ForGump	07/25/16 02:07 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/26/16 04:50 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Buxom	07/25/16 01:44 PM

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