I get that GAL is hard with kids. Can you sit down with W and hammer out a schedule? Does your 17yr old watch the younger ones, as in W will be home in an hour(ish) so you can leave and do your own thing? I don't leave my 15yr old with any of the younger ones as he has no patience for his 10yr old brother, the twins are just a flipping handful & Lilly has medical issues so she isn't left with ANYONE.
My suggestions, go for a massage (cheaper ones at massage/beauty schools) Go to the gym Go sit at Panera/bookstore/coffee shop and post/read here
Do whatever you can to NOT be there when your wife comes home. She needs to see you as a strong & mysterious man that has a great social life. New cologne, a new shirt, or shoes...
What's your current style? Casual, sporty?
Ok, gotta take my twins to preschool.... post more later
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction