I'm half and half, part Latina part Brit. So my terms dip in and out of cultures. He is definitely a bit immature and when he came back the last time he did admit we became parents very soon, and as much as he loves baby, it was all rather sudden and he felt a bit neglected. Though part of the history re-writing he will deny and admit this depending on if he's tuned in or out.
In a way perhaps not seeing him helped, I just came back from Paris with a girlfriend and I found the break helped me to gain focus and just be me a few days, not a parent or wife. And it so helped
I'm really proud to read your strength, it's like an inner voice wants to grab them with both hands. But they really need to realise and miss us and get a sense of what they have done and said. Good on you girl!
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16