Originally Posted By: JujuB
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Sometimes I wonder if I did this. Was I too impulsive? Did I self sabatoge with taking husband to court/ calling him out at court/ a lot of my reactions? I am Definatly more comfortable out of limbo. At time I felt like such a failure and so guilt ridden.



I feel this all the time too. And then I catch myself. Hindsight is a great teacher but I should never use it as a means of self-flagellation.

The good news is, I am becoming more comfortable with limbo and not knowing. It really was a lesson I needed to learn.

Originally Posted By: JujuB


In relationships People react, they fight, they make up. They don't look for excuses and manipulations to justify their actions.


Amen!


You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.