Ginger, it must have been tough on you all these years, especially when your d was still so young.
We all deserve love, and I think you did the right thing. Better to make a stand now than to learn later that NG can't step up to the plate.
The divorce recovery books say that the first breakup after a D is as painful as, if not more painful than, the D. It takes a lot of strength and courage to set aside our vulnerabilities to try again.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
