Thanks for advice. He rang me out the blue the other day going on about me booking appt with his mediator. It caught me on the hop as it was out of the blue and I did lose my temper with him.
Then I found that he had booked separate parents evening appointments for our country Oder son. What an idiot. Told h that that was ridiculous and as parents if he was going we should go together and his behaviour was actually embarrassing to his son. He relented to this although I had to cancel my spots and go with his ( all about him). He had th in Gaul to say that he didn't know I was was going. What a twit , my response was I have been to every parents evening since the kids started school what on earth made you think that would change.