Nate, Avoid all D and R talk with your WW. It's a recipe for disaster. Not only will you never win any arguments, you will just drive each other apart and create more acrimony in your D. You should talk to your L if you are trying to limit access to extracurriculars. It might be pretty difficult if they are public events. Personally I think it benefits the kids for both parents to be there...
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
