I understand your feelings.

So
Are you fully prepared for her to say she is done? I know you said you will be ok and I do believe that but and I am not saying that this is what it is, if this is your last ditch effort to wake her up and give it a shot together you must be prepared for it to go the other way.

I say it all the time to myself I just want to know or it to be over one way or another. But I second guess here and there. When the time comes that I don't second guess anymore then I will know it is time. Until then I do nothing. Really can't go wrong doing nothing!

I apply the same to my situation currently. I have been close some many times to ask w to spend time together alone but I second guess still so I take what we have going currently and try
To be happy with it. It is hard because my natural instincts are telling me to act on the signs I get.

But I am doing nothing right now until I feel I know.

I guess before you do anything make sure you are as close to 100%!as you can get

Man. I really feel for you because I know I am not far from this.


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15