To ignore or not to ignore?

[sr9e2d7]

What do you mean by that?

[sr9e2d7]

What are everyone's thoughts about me going out on a date?

[cubebot]

I say don't do it. i know the pain of being a LBS, but I don't think that you are emotionally in the right place. I think that you should focus on you and don't need to complicate things right now.

[Ralph88]

I agree. As LBSs we aren't right.. May take years to get right. You don't wanna mess someone else up either. Just because the S is messing up your R, stay true to your beliefs. Get well, get strong, get detached, figure out what you want and need in a R.

[collin]

my vote is, if you have any hopes of reconciliation then don't do anything to muddy the waters. ie. no to the date.

have fun being sr9, cause she's a wonderful person.

[Natus]

I was waiting eagerly for the responses to "What are everyone's thoughts about me going out on a date?" Was asking myself the same question.

[sr9e2d7]

Thank you everyone! My girlfriends have been recommending it but it scares the crap out of me!!

[cubebot]

Can you elaborate on the circumstances of the invite to a date?

[Ralph88]

I have a .01% chance of reconciliation, and I still wouldn't do a date. But I'm a different kind of guy.

[sr9e2d7]

A guy I work with has been hitting on me for years, and I've always declined obviously. Well now my friends think I should say yes, but I just know I'm not there yet. And hearing all the responses just solidifies my decision.