Missed an item in the list from 2 posts up, S11 was diagnosed with asth-ma about 2-3 years ago. Hospitalized a few times for it.

3 years ago, moved to a new house, old house didn't sell for almost a year, was a financially strain.

Work changes... She isn't crazy about her job, and her employer has asked her to go full time, with a promotion. She asked my thoughts. I told her I liked that she dropped off and picked up the kids from school, she liked Friday's off, so she stayed part time.

Approx one year before BDr, company dinner. W and I shared a table with a female coworker and her husband. W accused me of having a thing for her, I assume because I was able to have an adult conversation with her. This is the same coworker that W accused me of cheating with 1 week before BD. I assured her there was nothing.