Twinmom,

Interesting point on the counselor. I admit I was taken back when she suggested doing counseling now. Especially since she has said no when I brought it up in the beginning of all this and was very certain about it. I don't know what the motive is. Maybe just to say she did it once and could tell everyone that

As far as GAL, it's tough. Here's what my family life is. My wife is a hair stylist. She works every Tuesday and Thursday night, every other Wednesday night and alternates sat and Sunday's every week. I have the 4 kids 17, 11 and 7 year old twins. So not making excuses but the GAL has been tough. I used to draw a lot and started doing that again. I put my headphones on after kids go to bed and draw at the kitchen table. I also coach my sons baseball team so that's keeping me busy for a few hours on the weekends. I'm starting up playing softball myself in a week or so, 1 night a week. Not doing much else other than that. I've read other posts where people just retreat to their bedroom to get away. I could do that.


M:13 years
Known her for 30 years!
Me: 40
W: 38
Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7
BD: 02/07/2016
Found EA: 3/22/2016
Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16
Got Papers: 6/15/16