Maybe he hasn't filed because his life is just fine the way it is. OW isn't forcing him to make a decision and neither is his wife. My guess is he might just sit there for a long time. As made obvious by his affair he is not ruled by any moral factor and probably doesn't feel any particular need to commit to either lady. I just don't accept that he is behaving in this manner because of anything Rouky has or has not done. Rouky he is living his life for himself and no one else so I hope that you can do the same. Easy for me to say I know but I hurt for you and wish things could get better. Keep going to counseling and stay busy. Praying for you always.
M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.
