I missed part of Job's question... Issues related to her mother. Besides the OFP against her father, her abandoning her at 14, never showing any affection to her kids, being a bitter b1tc4, running over W's foot with a car by accident when W was around 12? Allowing W to have a 20 yr old bf live there when she was 15, and he was convicted of rape while they were dating?

Her father threatened to burn the house down.... Would that qualify? He always made the family leaving the living room so he could watch TV alone.

There's some stuff W told me when we first met that I don't know if I believe. That her mom cheated. That W was held down and r@p3d by 2 guys when she was a teen. Another bf, maybe the 20 yr old from above, forced certain private activities.

W cut herself as a teen. Maybe institutionalized at some time for suicide watch.

The list goes on and on. Like I said, I found myself very sympathetic of her position, assuming this stuff caught up with her.