You sound like you are leaps ahead than most of us are when we land here, and that's absolutely amazing!

I agree with the others on concentrating on yourself. It's kind of like you are both on your own little journey for a while. And the WAS needs to realise that they can't live without you and actively wants to continue in the r. My h has dipped in and out, all the while I make changes, after he had a PA, I believe I took him back to quick, and he didn't take the journey of realising his own mistakes and contribution to the breakdown in the M that led us to winding back into this situation again.

Keep focused on you, and keep journaling, people will come by and help, but it sounds like you are making a great start!! Honestly leaps ahead of most of us in the early days of our sitchs.

Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16