I've spent lots of time thinking about those things.
In the last year... Turned 40, that's about it.
Things she listed within the weeks before BD - Upset her dad died shortly after D9 was born, he didn't get to know his grandchildren (She mentioned years ago a regret that she didn't spend more time with him herself, and that she would have turned out better if she lived with him instead of her absent mother) - Brought up that she was still upset about aborshun (spelled wrong) 6 years earlier, when she hears about one of my nephews who would have been the same age reminded her. - Another of my nieces was fixed but had a tubal PG and almost bled to death - concern about her AD's being off - concern she was starting menopause, she was starting to need to shave - Excessive health concerns in past year, one that is hereditary and is debilitating - Excessive health problems, nothing too severe - Getting kids involved in more activities, which upset me when it got excessive, plus she started 2 volunteer activities related to the kids. - one of her volunteer activities was not being welcomed by recipients frustrated her - D9 had depression for past 2 years - S11 diagnosed with dis-Lexi-a (spelled wrong intentionally) about 2 years ago, his teacher was unsupportive - I worked a LOT in 2014 - She got upset when I was too strict with the children, last incident was days before BD (triggered memories of her abusive father? But I was nothing like her father) - financial issues, running out of money, and her not keeping up on bills, I was upset as she was only working 2 days a week - I had cancer 8 years earlier, was overdue for checkup, but I'll guess it was not related - more involvement in new circle of friends - one guy of new friends, his wife left state suddenly a month earlier, I am sure made him sad and over emotional (which might be attractive to someone like her?) - our relationship was not doing real great, resentment over activities building up over last few months - after our anniversary trip I supposedly said a sarcastic comment "were you hoping to rekindle something?" I don't remember it. Maybe a frustration I had about the problem with communication, and a trip won't solve that.
I was not excessively loving, because from day 1, she pushed me away when I tried. But I continued to try, continued to tell her I loved her a couple times a day.
So, no one thing seems to stand out alone, but is the complete list enough? Or does that just make her a WAW?
