I've decided I'll go and see my daughter on her birthday but only for a short time - otherwise the presence of W just gets to me - this detachment is so hard when you can't avoid their physical presence due to handovers of kids.
In other news my parents are advising me to go for the big bad D, and to give back to her the spew she dishes to me, albeit in a more controlled manner. Virtually certain she is in MLC now so very afraid of this backfiring, I feel to continue to DB is best, albeit it is tough on me. I feel a D is just giving up, and I want no regrets at the end of this (couldn't care what W feels at the end).
Finally W has asked for a copy of some of my photos of kids - really not happy about this, she was the one who walked but now wants to call the shots on things like this. What is the best way for me to go about getting things like this, child access and other things agreed when they are in ultra bitch mode all the time? I find she has some cheek asking for this after refusing to allow more access.
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted
